An original piece from the 1949 MGM movie musical, Neptune's Daughter, the song is sung by TWO different couples; one in which the man is the "aggressor", and shockingly overlooked, one in which the woman is the aggressor. It's not a story of rape; it's the charmingly sung and slyly choreographed age-old mating dance between a man and a woman. It's about a charming seducer, and the coyly seduced. Nothing more, nothing less.
Snowflakes, my advice to you (as if you'd take it), is trade your training pants in for some big gender-inclusive pants, pull those bitches up, and join the adult world of getting the fuck over yourselves. And while you're at it, pull your favorite gender-fluid person of emotional interest close (after having received an affirmative "yes") and watch the movie. You might learn a little something.